> Given a site, say <http://www.bimm.org.uk> I want to
> list all the URL's on any page on that site. I don't
> want to mirror/copy the site content.  The p0 option
> pretty much does what I want except that the URL's
> disappear. 
> 
> My use-case is that Mr X. says he has placed links
> to my site on his site. I want to find those links.

The -p0 won't do it because it will check only internal links and you're
looking external links (links for your site.)

Mirror just the html and use your local search tools to find links to your
site.